Many times, he brings online friends back home to play mahjong or video games, making the whole room messy. Plus, my boyfriend likes to read books, but after finishing, he just throws them on the bed and falls asleep, leaving them scattered everywhere (even in the bathroom). After a while, the books pile up like small mountains, and at night when we're in bed... it feels chaotic...
Many times he brings net friends home to play mahjong and video games, making the whole room smoky and stuffy. Plus, my boyfriend likes to read books and just throws them on the bed after reading, then falls asleep. They're scattered all over the place (even in the bathroom), and over time, the pile of books has become like a small mountain. It feels very awkward when we're intimate in bed at night. I'm not a great beauty, but I'm good-looking. I'm 24 this year and have a good figure. I've been with my boyfriend for over half a year, and we get along well. Although he's a bit short and has average looks, he's become much more settled since he met me. We spend most of our time together, and he often accompanies me when I go shopping, never complaining about being tired. But as we've spent more time together, I've noticed more and more of his quirks in daily life. It started with him liking my feet, then progressed to smelling my socks and shoes, and eventually, he even sneaked out to the rooftop in the middle of the night to sniff other women's freshly dried underwear. He's been caught several times by the women living next door, who have come to me to complain. My boyfriend's fetishism makes me feel disgusted. I've told him many times, but he doesn't change. When I ask him why, he always avoids the question, mumbling something about liking the scent of women, which excites him. It's really infuriating. We've had several arguments because of this. But that's not the worst part... Recently, my boyfriend's company laid off employees, and he was one of them. He's been very upset. Since then, he's become gloomy and a bit chauvinistic. His usual outgoing nature has turned into laziness. He gets up earlier than me every day, sits in front of the computer to play games or chat with net friends, and can stay there all day long, sometimes even skipping meals. What's worse, he's started neglecting his hygiene, not changing clothes or taking baths. Every time I mention it, he says he's being environmentally friendly and just grins. If he gets flirtatious with female net friends, he completely ignores what I say. Although I'm very angry, I can't do anything about it. He often brings net friends home to play mahjong and video games, making the room smoky and stuffy. Plus, he likes to read and just throws the books on the bed after reading, then falls asleep. They're scattered all over the place (even in the bathroom), and over time, the pile of books has become like a small mountain. It feels very awkward when we're intimate in bed at night. Yesterday, while he was out drinking with friends, I took the opportunity to tidy up the room and found a mess of things on the bedside table. Under the bed, I discovered several used condoms, which really startled me. I'm on my period these days, and my boyfriend hasn't touched me for over half a month since he quit his job. How could there be condoms? Could it be that he's actually taking things offline with those net friends? But that seems impossible. According to my boyfriend, almost all of those female net friends are married, even the kind you could call "aunties." The more I think about it, the more confused I get. I don't know what to do? I'm really frustrated now. Last night, I wanted to ask my boyfriend about it. Seeing his smiling face, I almost spoke up but then held back. But as soon as he got home, he turned on the computer and started chatting with his net friends again. I really can't stand it anymore. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do? |
2025-01-01
2025-01-01
2025-01-01